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goodbye old boots

In spite of all my recent talk about spending less, there’s a certain kind of consumption that I can get behind: the purchase of kick-ass hiking boots. I’m saying goodbye to a great pair of mine.

When I decided to go to Alaska for two weeks in May 2003, my father (and guide) told me that I must purchase new boots. They needed to be waterproof, supportive of my ankles and flat feet, and durable. My dad assisted me in the selection of my boots–in fact, I think he may have actually bought them–and then instructed me to wear them night and day so they’d be broken in by the time we left for Anchorage.

They served me well on that trip as we covered the mountains of Denali National Park, squishy and wild terrain off the Alaskan highway, and many icy, blue glaciers. My boots were a souvenir of my adventure, and I got attached. Last month, I was genuinely saddened when I finally accepted that they were, in fact, “dead.” (See the tear in the heel up there? It is exposed throughout the inside and was ripping up the back of my feet).

Since Alaska, I’ve hiked in those boots in Arches National Park outside Moab, Utah (again, with my dad). I’ve snowshoed in Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado. I’ve gone on countless hikes across New York State, and Southern Ontario. My boots have climbed up one of the only “high points” near my grandmother’s house in Kansas, Coronado Heights. They also suffered the smells and substances of farm life when I lived and worked on a dairy farm in the Hudson Valley.

In South Korea my boots provided every day comfort, and critical protection when my heel was trapped under the tire of a moving car in a busy marketplace. Without the thick and high back of my boot, my heel would have been crushed instead of just bruised.

When I traveled to Germany, my boots paired up nicely with a bright skirt I bought at the H&M in Heidelberg. They also came in handy when my friend Zeb and I learned that to get to the hostel in a castle on top of a hill in Bacharach we had to actually climb the hill. And when our friend took us on a surprise day trip to a ski mountain in Switzerland, my boots got me through some of the thickest, highest snow I’ve ever seen.

And speaking of snow, my boots ushered me through seven Western New York winters including the one where our basement flooded several times and I had to traipse through freezing cold, shin-high water.

My new boots are still being broken in, and they’ve yet to experience much of anything. Still, I’m hopeful that their purchase goes as far as the purchase of my old boots, to which I say goodbye and good luck in your new life as planters.

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January 11, 2011 - 11:29 PM

Russ Crispell - Good Bye Old Boots… such fond memories cannot be erased even when new boots take their place. May I suggest that perhaps an appropriate flower to plant would be “Forget-me-nots”?

And so – farewell to the old boots and I have to welcome the new ones… looking forward to new journeys, new adventures, and down the road of life — reflections of the time spent hitting the trails of life!!!

January 14, 2011 - 9:04 PM

courtney - RIP Boots. May you find another pair that is just as good and takes you on as many memorable quests. I’m sure you will on both counts.

Also I totally need a pair of awesome boots. For treadill desk alone. How sad is that? Oh well.

January 17, 2011 - 10:45 PM

whitney - @Dad – Great suggestion about the Forget Me Nots, I love it!

@C – You DEFINITELY need proper shoes. No more slippers, lady.

#reverb10 recap

I signed up for reverb10 in December, a blog challenge that asks each participant to respond to a prompt every day for the entire month. One of reverb’s organizers, Gwen Bell, did a similar end-of-the-year wrap up event in 2009 with her best of ’09 challenge (reverb10 grew from it).

I didn’t feel too bad when I started to slack off on both my public and private responses to the prompts because I had a feeling it would be hard to keep up.  The prompts I did consider resulted in very useful and meaningful reflection. I finally wrote about things I’d been meaning to get out for awhile as well as things I didn’t know I needed to address.

On the blog, I shared with you all responses to the following: healing, wisdom, action, 11 things, partying, community, being different, wonder, letting go, making, moments, writing, and one word.

Would I do it again?

Maybe. I loved the opportunity for reflection but I didn’t always love the prompts. I found that the best of ’09 topics were more suited for the kind of reflection I want to do and have time to do at the end of the year. I like a mix of intense reflection and playful prompts. As much as I hate to admit it, sometimes I just didn’t have time to dig deep into reverb. And yes, I know that digging deep is the point of a challenge but perhaps this one isn’t for me, at least not in December.

If the lovely ladies at reverb decide to make a reverb11, I will no doubt check it out.  I may keep my participation private though, and enjoy soaking up the reverberations from those who don’t. Thank you Gwen, Kaileen, and Cali!

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January 4, 2011 - 9:42 PM

aggaspletch - You are spot on, regarding the constant serious serious tone of the prompts/questions. Well said…

January 5, 2011 - 3:59 AM

Alaia - I’m pretty much with you on the whole thing.

I’ve connected with lots of interesting people because of reverb though, so I’m definitely happy that I signed up.

Lots of interesting entries bookmarked to go back and read!

Happy 2011 to you!

:-)

January 17, 2011 - 10:46 PM

whitney - Thanks, you two. I really enjoyed the community part of reverb10, that part was a great improvement on best09

joy, sorrow, perspective, love

The last twelve days of 2010 were pretty intense: a bridal shower for my dear friend Natalie, Brynn and Brian visited for a night, Nat and her Brian got married (I was in the wedding), my little brother spent Christmas Eve and day in the hospital (he’s out and better now), and then our friend and tenant Ray passed away unexpectedly. A real cocktail of joy, sorrow, perspective, and love.

I’m starting 2011 with immense respect and gratitude for my health, friendships, and family.

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January 5, 2011 - 4:35 AM

courtney - Me too.

I’m glad your brother is better now and I’m sending thoughts to you Ray’s family and friends. I’m sorry for the loss, Whit.

January 9, 2011 - 11:15 PM

Yax - Ray would absolutely love that photo. Of him coaching :)

January 17, 2011 - 10:47 PM

whitney - @courtney – thanks!

@yax – yes, he would. especially because he’s wearing that jacket!